I heard a confession once, the lady said she had contracted HIV from her boyfriend and decided to have her revenge on as men as possible, 2GO was jollof Social media at the time so she marked her hunting ground.

She says would befriend boys, appear “cheap”, they would invite her over, she will form “gullible and go” they would bang her and run, claiming they had used her. She slept with more than 20 boys without protection, she said. Who used who? Who was the victim?

So I cringe each time I see a post on how girls should be careful on social media and the somewhat bragging rights guys display how they can’t be touched by the decay and Hazard because it is a woman’s problem.
On the contrary, everyone should be careful. Evil is not gender sensitive.

What is an average man prowling Facebook for? I am not talking serial killers and ritualist? The answer is sex right? Now because we have the belief that only women can be victims of a sexual encounter because when Nigerian men sleep with you, you are cheap and must lose your dignity (dignity that society went to keep in vagina, is that one dignity sef?) we are quick to forget that, that is not the worst that can happen except of course when the guy left he used axe to cut off the Kpomo.

Has it occurred to you that women prowling Facebook have far nefarious plots, she may be after sex, (oh sorry Nigerian women only give sex, they don’t enjoy it) your money, your marriage, to trap you in a marriage or situation, to use you to brag to her friends, to stain your name or family’s, could be a political adversary trying to bring you down, they could be gunning for
your life. But because men don’t talk about the things they experience, how they slept with one babe and since then they can’t get an erection, how they escaped mortal danger. Some have disappeared without trace because even their friends didn’t know they went to block one Facebook chic in the first place.

I met a Facebook friend at Eko Hotels and she instantly recognized me, before our chit chat was over, she said, “Damn! I wish you are a man, I love banging writers”

I didn’t ask why.

My pastor told me how this pastor of a blooming church in Ghana committed suicide because a girl lured him into bed, made videos and requested millions or she would post it on Social Media. Does it not remind you of the saga between Otobo and Apostle Suleiman? That is if they met on Social media.

This matter is another overdose of the bull crap advice we often think is exclusively for women. Did you know even some girls who cry after an ephemeral Facebook relationship is over just do it to keep up appearances, they have moved on since like 2005 but because of our cultural conditioning, we are supposed to behave like we are hurt.

Naaaa! Some babes just want a good head from that boy who generates 1000 likes and sounds like he is smart. Or just any boy jare, nothing more.


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